Troy Perry and the Metropolitan Community Church

In the summer of 2011 I rode my motorcycle around the U.S. in search of pre-1980 evidence of same-sex marriage for my book Outlaws to In-Laws. I made stops at queer and lesbian and gay archives in Boston, New York, San Francisco, and Los Angeles. Caption: Me and Troy Perry. While in L.A. I met up with Troy Perry, founder of the Metropolitan Community Church … Continue reading Troy Perry and the Metropolitan Community Church

Crime Doesn’t Pay

I have always loved giving public talks. I love the challenge of writing a compelling narrative, and I love the rush of energy I get from an attentive audience who is usually pleased, sometimes even thrilled, to learn something new about queer history. Occasionally someone approaches me after a presentation with a story to share. Just such a thing happened this past week. I participated … Continue reading Crime Doesn’t Pay


[click for larger] The headline says it all. In the 1950s, lesbians were “freaks.” This was especially true of butch women who adopted a masculine working-class style. Their style alone communicated volumes: I will not conform to society’s rules; I will not be a “proper” woman; I am a sexually desiring being, and my desire is directed toward women, especially feminine women.
 When I first … Continue reading FREAK WEDDING! BRIDEGROOM IS A GIRL